The Wenatchee World Online
Troubled woman had history with CPS
Posted July 22, 2008
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A teddy bear, personal letters and several bouquets of flowers mark the place near Porter's Pond in East Wenatchee where authorities believe Taunya Hilliard killed herself and her son, Spencer Hepko. (World photo/Kathryn Stevens)

Editor's note: This is the first of a two-part report on the July 7 deaths of Taunya Hilliard and her son, Spencer Hepko. The Wenatchee World has gathered information from family members, Child Protective Services and police and court records.



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A personal note lies at Porter's Pond at the foot of 19th Street along the Apple Capital Recreation Loop Trail in East Wenatchee for Spencer Hepko and Taunya Hilliard. (World photo/Kathryn Stevens)

By Jaime Adame


World staff writer


EAST WENATCHEE — Child Protective Services had some contact with Taunya L. Hilliard, the woman police say shot her 9-year-old son before turning the gun on herself near the Apple Capital Recreation Loop Trail in East Wenatchee.


But no active case involved Hilliard at the time of the July 7 shooting, said Connie Lambert-Eckel, a deputy regional administrator for the state division of Children and Family Services.


And Hilliard's brother said — despite his sister's prior drug abuse and an earlier suicide attempt in 2005 — things were looking up since her marriage to Sam Hilliard. The couple was living together with Spencer in East Wenatchee at the time of the shooting, according to police.


"Over the last two years, while Taunya's been married to Sam, things have been wonderful," said Brandon Jones. In 2000, Jones for a time had legal custody of his sister's three children, he said.


Ups and downs in his sister's life included a 2005 divorce, during which letters filed in Chelan County Superior Court described her as an angry woman who worried her family.


Still, Jones said he knew of nothing troubling his sister recently. He said their mother spoke with Taunya three days before the shooting, and "everything seemed completely fine."


'A really good mom'


Hilliard, 37, was found dead on the riverbank in the area known as Porter's Pond, a semi-automatic gun in her hand and a two-page handwritten note on the ground, police said. Her son, Spencer Hepko, had been shot in the head, and he died two days later at Harborview Medical Center in Seattle.


Family members have referred to Spencer as Spencer Hepko-Hilliard, but his name is Spencer Hepko on his death certificate, according to the King County Medical Examiner's Office.


Spencer was the child of Hilliard and her second husband, Mark Hepko. Before that marriage, Hilliard — who grew up Taunya Jones in Silverdale — had two children with her first husband.


"She, for a long time, was a really good mom. I know that's going to be hard for people to grasp," said Jones in a phone interview July 14. When he was closest to his sister, "her home was always clean, the kids were always clean and happy," he said.


Still, Jones said he phoned Child Protective Services several times over the years to report his sister neglecting Spencer.


"All of this started when she started using drugs," said Jones, 33, adding he never thought his sister physically abused her children.


Documents released by the Kent Police Department show in 2000 Child Protective Services stepped in after a report of abuse involving Mark Hepko, Spencer's father and Taunya's husband at the time. The documents suggest the investigation did not center on Spencer Hepko.


Mark Hepko later received a suspended prison sentence. In an e-mail interview, he called the shootings "the most tragic event of my life." He said he hadn't seen Taunya in more than six years or Spencer since 2002, except for at the hospital after the shooting. Hepko confirmed he and Taunya began using methamphetamine in 2000, two years after they were married.


Jones said he and his wife, April, were living in Monroe when they took custody of Taunya's three children. His sister was living in Kent at the time, he said.


Two children went to live with their biological father, while Spencer stayed with Jones' family for eight months, Jones said.


These concerns continued for years after his sister regained custody of Spencer, said Jones, now living in Mill Creek. He added that he called CPS numerous times, rarely hearing back from the state agency.


In the last two years, however, Jones said he thought his sister was no longer using drugs. He said he filed no complaints with CPS during this time, and described his sister's husband, Sam Hilliard, as "an amazing guy" who helped his sister quit drinking. Sam Hilliard did not respond to interview requests.


State, court involvement


In 2003, Taunya Hepko was convicted of driving under the influence in Douglas County District Court. The conviction is the only entry in her online criminal history, according to a Washington State Patrol database.


Court records show that in 2004 she married Brian Brons in East Wenatchee. The marriage would end about a year later.


In 2005, several letters written to Chelan County Superior Court described Taunya Brons as an angry woman, even as she sought a protection order against her husband.


"Taunya has a serious anger problem," wrote her sister, Tammie Riddell, in a letter filed in court.


Shortly before that letter, Riddell had called the Douglas County Sheriff's Office to report that her sister threatened her over the phone. No charges were filed. Riddell declined to speak with a reporter in the days after the shooting.


Taunya Brons had claimed that Brian Brons was peeking in her windows and leaving her notes and letters in her car at work. She also claimed he had verbally threatened an unnamed friend.


A judge decided not to grant a more permanent restraining order. Brian Brons did not respond to interview requests.


Jones said his sister had troubles, including involvement in an abusive relationship with a boyfriend, whose name he said he didn't remember, and a suicide attempt. Jones said the suicide attempt occurred in 2005 somewhere in the Wenatchee area.


"I don't know what kind of pills, but she took some pills," Jones said.


"I spoke with her the next morning," said Jones in a phone interview this morning, adding that he also heard about the incident from a relative. He said he thought his sister had been upset after a dispute with a boyfriend.


After the incident, his sister voluntarily agreed to temporarily give up Spencer, and Jones said he cared for Spencer for about two months that summer, a transfer that he said involved state welfare workers.


"He went back to her right before school started," said Jones, adding that he remained concerned about Spencer's welfare.


Lambert-Eckel declined to give details about CPS' involvement with Hilliard and her son, citing the ongoing police investigation. She did confirm that CPS had involvement with the family in two places in the state, including the Wenatchee area.


Another welfare official said CPS does not automatically remove a child if there is a parental suicide attempt, but welfare workers rely on mental health professionals to decide what to do. A suicidal parent is offered services such as counseling, said Sharon Gilbert, deputy director for field operations in the state Children's Administration, a division of the state Department of Social and Health Services.


Gilbert said welfare authorities were not required to investigate because they had not provided services to the family within the previous year, but a formal review was expected to take place anyway to study how welfare authorities handled complaints and delivered services to the family.


Jones said he doesn't think CPS handled his earlier complaints correctly, some of which he made out of concern for Spencer after his sister moved to the Wenatchee area.


"I'm not saying that I blame CPS for what's happening right now," Jones said. "What I'm saying is, if they had done a better job in the time reports were being made, she may not have had custody of him."


Jaime Adame: 664-7144


adame@wenworld.com



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I never know what to say about situations like this. I am not one to give inspirational advice or comments. I am an ear. I listen to my friends and I try to be there for them. I don't bash the other person nor go in their favor especially if I only knew one of the people in the story. I have to hear both sides of the story to make a final descision on my thoughts of the situation or feelings of that person.
In this case, I am going to speak of this situation. I feel we all don't know the full story, but as far as what happened, it is a tragedy, a terrible loss of two of Gods children. Everyone wants to point the finger to someone, but we also need to think of the family and their loss, and mourning. But...
If you truely feel that the system is to blame, do something about it to change it.
My husband didn't even know he had a 5 year old boy out there. Now he is struggling to pay his "$11,000 back pay" because the mother didn't bother to contact men she was with until she applied for welfare through DSHS. Our tax refunds all go to DSHS. He tried to fight it but came out to be a loss on his part. He doesn't even get to see him. The boy doesn't even live with her, he lives with his grandparents but yet my husbands paychecks are garnished and sent to HER. DSHS doesn't seem to care. We are trying to do something about it. It is hard to take on the government but we all need to do something!! We need to Speak Out. I hope all this came out right and Im not affending anyone and I hope it makes sense.
Thank You,
A loving and caring friend of the family.
E S | Aug 17, 2008 11:10 am | Request Removal
melissa mills you need to go to church more often cause christians of all people should be more understanding (they have god on their side). not to come on public and say what you said. you need to pray more to not let yourself hurt people more... tom ripley
wallman 27 | Jul 24, 2008 7:18 pm | Request Removal
you all got our final interview from the ripley side. we will say no more to the press. if you have questions reguarding this matter go to your local church and ask that preacher mans advice. quit stompin on her, and leave us alone. tom ripley
wallman 27 | Jul 24, 2008 6:52 pm | Request Removal
God add another nail for Melissa. Judge ye lest ye be judged. May God forgive you Melissa. PH a family friend
P H | Jul 24, 2008 6:14 pm | Request Removal
Jamie Hoyson will you please email me @ reptcpdss@yahoo.com
A Friend | Jul 24, 2008 3:43 pm | Request Removal
I know Aprils parents are distraught along with the rest of our church family. Most of us didn't know Spencer, but when we heard what had happened from Aprils dad, we were grieved. Even older men wept openly. You didn't see women murdering their children-execution style 40-50 years ago. Enabling a society to be selfish rather that selfless breeds contempt from the the selfish as a whole. And when life is disreguarded in the womb, what is it for me to murder you, or you to murder me (outside of the womb? (Sister Tereasa said that once). Very few of these comments state the truth... that this women murdered her son.
melissa mills | Jul 23, 2008 11:50 pm | Request Removal
To the Family and Friends of Taunya and Spencer. Please know that you ALL are in the thoughts and prayers of many, many, many people. Peace be with you.
Julie Dawkins | Jul 23, 2008 10:50 pm | Request Removal
It is a sad day when everyone has to make make remarks
on this comment page that they did not think or pray before they typed their thoughts. When you have walked
in Taunya's mocassins and know her deep inner personal
thoughts that only God would know, when you know all of the facts, know all of the family history, know who
did what and when and can speak from that knowledge
you should be very careful what you say as if you thought it God knows you did. This tragedy has rocked the family and their is nothing said here that is ever
going to change the deep hurt placed in the families hearts by what some of you have stated in these comments that you felt the need to share with the public. Was it necessary, did you feel better after you typed it? Did it bring back Taunya and Spencer? Did it comfort the family or did you bash them and any
one that you felt you could blame this on.Pointing fingers isn't changing a thing is it? When you can get
down on your knees and ask God what you can do to help
what you can do to ease the pain, what you can do to make a difference, did you do this?Did you make a big
difference or did you add to the pain, give more hurt
than help? Will you feel good when God asks you about
your statements here, when He asks you, was it loving?
Was it supportive? Did it make a Heavenly difference?
Only God knows each and every one of your intentions
and it is for only Him to Judge You.We all know Jesus was crucified on the cross, how many more nails do any
of the rest of you need to nail into Taunya before your crucifixion of her is finished? Will you have really made it better or worse? Ask yourselves that
before you type here. Make it count as only God will
be your judge as to whether it was for love or hurt.
PH a friend of the family
P H | Jul 23, 2008 9:34 pm | Request Removal
to my family, we have a great loss to deal with, our family is very good at dealing with them. and i love you guys dearly. to those of you who never met taunya and are just going by the papers, keep out of it! you dont know everything! she was an awesome mother, if not her kids would not be as great as they are today. and spencer would not have been the joy that he was and we all remember. she was a human being that had problems. JUST LIKE EVERYONE ELSE! let my family grieve our loss and get on with your lives. i never thought this could happen to my family, i always heard about it in papers and that kind of thing and never understood how or why they could do it. but now that its happened in mine, i have a greater understanding of life and how precious it is. please let my family grieve. and if you didnt know these two wonderful people, stay out of it.
Amber Ripley | Jul 23, 2008 6:59 pm | Request Removal
Just thought about my last post...It was probably a little blatant and insensetive to the family, my apologies
Ty Ritchie | Jul 23, 2008 3:23 pm | Request Removal
You may have to shoot four times if you are unfamiliar with guns, or are upset and shaking. As for screaming...she was mentally disturbed and just watched her son die by her own hand...who wouldn't scream?

I have a lot of faith in our local law enforcement, they wouldnt come out and say suicide if it wasn't. Lets not add conspiracy theories and other BS to what is already tragedy enough.
Ty Ritchie | Jul 23, 2008 3:21 pm | Request Removal
I guess I am a little confused by all this. When I read about this, I had to question if it was even suicide. You don't need to fire a gun 4 times to kill 2 people and why would she scream? And one more thing to the others that responded to this. No one knows exactly what went on, so pointing fingers really doesn't help anyone. I imaging the family is in enough pain as it is.
Brenda Ryan | Jul 23, 2008 12:44 pm | Request Removal
Sorry Jason , This can be a very dangerous condition not just bloating and being mean. it messes with your thoughts . I have been reading about Taunya and Spencer . I dont no what her condtion was but this can happen just having PMS or worse PMDD. It took me many yrs and finally the right doctor to find out what was really wrong .Luckly I didnt hurt any one phyically just mentally . This is not an easy condition for family members to deal with.
Bonnie Muotka | Jul 23, 2008 10:23 am | Request Removal
As long as we are talking about mental illness. How about PMS and PMDD ?? Yrs women have suffered and killed because they did not have the RIGHT doctor .
Bonnie Muotka | Jul 23, 2008 9:21 am | Request Removal
To the family, we all have our individual experiences with both Taunya and Spencer. In our struggle to hold onto that in some way I know I am starting to process some feelings of anger. This is so hard because I don't think I ever fully processed my loss of the love from the divorce. So here I am in this major battle of love and loss. We have each other left, for whatever reason that is what we got, let's cherish that. Everyone just empathize with one another that we are all going to grieve differently and this is fresh. Choose forgiveness. Tom, I will give you a call today, I am hopefully making my way over there on Friday. Talk to you soon.
Mark Hepko | Jul 23, 2008 8:19 am | Request Removal
Two comments from me this morning.

1st, to R. McGowan, thank you for your sweet statement. It's perfect for this forum that has turned into people lashing out at each other, too late.

2nd, I think the Wenatchee World might consider limiting comments to <1000 characters rather than 5000. There's no need for the great american novel here, and I believe even the Safety Valve has a limit of 250 words, which might equate to 1250-1500 characters.

Let's let Spencer rest in peace.
Mom of two | Jul 23, 2008 7:28 am | Request Removal
TK West - I didn't quite get that...could you tell us how you really feel?
Don Ribbs | Jul 23, 2008 12:35 am | Request Removal
Really, do you have ANY IDEA, how many people step up? Do you have any idea how often clinics, doctors, police, hospitals, and behavioral health orgs are BEGGED for intervention? How often the families, friends and even just observers of the mentally ill are told there is nothing anyone can do?

I have a dear friend, someone who is walking among us RIGHT NOW, who hears voices telling him that people are going to kill him, and that he needs to hunt them down first. His family and I have begged, pleaded, and demanded, to no avail.

He beleives the voices are real, he's not sick, and the meds are a plot to kill him. His choice, by law.

I was a social worker for years, specializing in the homeless, who are rife with mental illness. Lots of people "stepped up", with donations, volunteer hours, etc. This is a very generous and caring community. The fault was not in people not caring.

GOVERNMENT is responsible. They defend these people's right to make their own choices about treatment, even when it's obvious they can't. Why? Because if you force people to take treatment(especially poor people) the state would have to pay for it. Plain and simple, bottom line. Until government is held accountable for the mentally ill, tragedies like Taunya and Spencer will continue.

And my friend? I can GARAUNTEE that he will hurt, possibly kill someone. He will go to prison, or be shot by a policeman. And everyone will ask the same thing they are asking now...why?
Ty Ritchie | Jul 22, 2008 11:35 pm | Request Removal
Do you really want to know who is responsible for this tragedy! YOU are!!! That's right YOU, go ahead, look in the mirror,yes... YOU!!! SOCIETY!! Do you know how common mental illness is? Do you know how much and how often mental illness effects YOU!
Every day. What have YOU done to improve this national health crisis? Do you know anything about it? When is the last time you gave a donation to the National Mental Health Assoc? or read a book on mental health to educate yourself. Really! Well when is that last time you donated to Cancer, A Heart fund, church or school fund raiser? Or read a book to learn how to protect your heart, body and health. How hard do you work to stay in shape on the outside? Well mental health is just,if not more important to donate too and learn about, for ALL of us. Money to mental health would save countless lives. When is the last time you saw an obituary that said Give to the American Heart assoc, etc. Often right? Well when is the last time you saw an obituary say Give to NMHA.(National Mental health Assoc) In ten years I"ve seen it only once, YET I've seen or heard of more than a dozen deaths by suicide in this area this year alone. I know of several dozen deaths by drugs or alcohol this year alone. What does drugs or alcohol have to do with mental health, everything. Most people with mental issues self medicate with drugs or alcohol. Most start in their teens or pre-teens when all they know is that these chemicals make them feel different, better for a time, but they don't know they cause worsening mental illness as time goes on. Not knowing in their innocence that they want that mental change because they are depressed, or manic and need mental health help. Then it snowballs into a life of distruction, failed marriages, lost children and families or worse yet, a life of crime that effects ALL of us, even YOU. IF we gave to mental health, MONEY could be found to help catch these issue when kids are in school, young, and would never start self medication ( not all mentally ill self medicate, the illness, even without street drugs,etc, will cause a life time of sadness and hurt if not properly treated) More mental health staff (or just some) in schools would be a start, the earlier caught the better. More Doctors would go into the mental health field IF funding could be found. All of the USA is VERY short on mental health Drs. I truely believe that 75% of crime could be stopped if we had money and research to understand mental illness and stop all this before it starts. Many people in prison have a mental illness, they get out with no help and have no where to turn to but to more crime. Yet less than one forth of serious crime is caused by mentally ill people. MANY mentally ill are hard working dedicated, charming people, they are the lucky ones who could afford or were able to get the help they needed. Mental illness is a very treatable illness with the right tools. But we need more research and better medications and more Dr's and way more help. WE need more training for law enforcement and teachers and families to learn and recognise mental illness, for their safety and for the safety of the poor victim of this illness. Not having funding for mental illness affects YOU, and only YOU have the power to stop it. Try to get mental health here at Central Washington Hospital. You can't, they don't have help there. They might call someone to look at you, check your vitals, patch you up,etc and then tell you to take yourself or your ill, possibly unstable,loved one home or to a large city (on your own) for help. Call the police saying you feel like hurting yourself or someone. They can't help you, the hospital does not have a psch ward. It's not their fault, there is no money, they could maybe lock you up for a day or so if you are a real danger but what does that solve. At least Florida has the "Baker law" where someone who is a danger to them selves or others can be hospitalized without consent for 3 days and get proper treatment, Oh yeah I forgot that takes money, something you have to donate, or ask your congressman to allocate. Just something SOCIETY needs to step up and change. Someone said "She should have called the police or stopped her meds on her own when she couldn't get hold of her Dr, the last person you can blame is the mentally ill person they have NO powers to reason properly. Their mind is NOT working properly. Stopping mental health meds quickly can be very dangerous, you should never do this without your Dr's advice. Try calling the FEW mental health therapist around here on a weekend or after hours, you get no answer. Your told to call 911. 911 takes you to the hospital where there is no real mental health help. WHY... no money. WHY, beause we, society, brush mental health away, we are embarrassed, we don't donate or help in any way. Yet more than 1 in 4 people have a mental health issue, luckily most of them are safe, productive people as they were lucky and got help, educated or had an easier treated mental problem,or most likely because someone who loved them read up, educated theirselves and/or helped them find help. Not all mental health is the same, not all mental illness are easily treated, it can takes YEARS to stablize someone (how quickly do cancer patients get cured) We need more research, that means more money. Mental health meds are VERY helpful, they are also VERY dangerous and the person taking them might need to be monitored closely at times, espically during med changes, they can not monitor or be reponsible for theirselves. They may NOT be stable, this is not their fault. There's no mental health hospital here, no professional person to monitor them 24-7 to see if a new or increased med is going to help or hurt them. The dangers or lack of dangers aren't known untill it happens. She was doing the right thing. Trying to find mental health help. WE! SOCEITY! failed her, her son and everyone like her that has tried to find help but can't. After YEARS of research, money, doctors and training, we can cure many cancers, many heart problems, but mental issues are still in the baby stage of learning. Why because there is no money, very few give to mental health. There's a stigma to mental health, we would all perfer to stick our heads in the sand. When is the last time you wrote a letter and asked your congressman to give more money to mental health. When is the last time you asked your congressman to insure that insurance companies cover mental health issues like they do cancer or other body illness. Is our head, our brain not the most important part of our bodies? Most insurance comanpies will tell you that they will cover you for 7 days in a psch ward or 14 mental health visits a year. Then you are out on your own. Can you imagine if you had cancer or a heart attack and they said, we will help you for 7 days then you are on your own. Psch wards can cost thousands a day and mental health meds can cost several hundered a month. Many mentally ill people can't work,or have no issurance, how can they improve their lives? Were you born with thin hair, big ears, near sighted? The mentally ill are no more responsible for the small things that went wrong in their brains, that they inherited than you are for the things you inherited, yet we treat them like they have the plague. We don't want to give to research to help, but we are the first to _itch if "they" cause us some problems, or some heartaches. Maybe she was moody or hard to live with or often divorced, these are ALL just a few signs of mental illness, she could no more help that then you can help having short fingers or thin lips. WE do more with plastic surgery to change our outsides than we do to medically help the mentally troubled. Just one example of ignoring the problem possible due to the stigma and it not being a "Popular illness" Ted Turner is bipolar, he gives millions to the United Nations,yet I've never heard of him donated to mental health. Many in Hollywood have mental illness, some cover it with drugs and alcohol,many can afford help for theirselves and get it but don't help others in the same situation. Many of these people give to AIDS, Cancer research,etc, all worthy causes BUT they don't even give to their own illness because mental illness needs to be swept under the rug. It's taboo, don't talk about it, maybe it'll go away. The elephant in the room is ignored by ALL of us and society until it upsets us by shoving it's ugly self in our face with a sad tradegy. Shame on ALL society who blames but then looks the other way. Next time you hear about a crime, see a child skipping school, looking sad, lost, dropping out, or a man with a gun robbing your neighbor, or a women stressed out, yelling, making bad uncontroled choices, or someone drinking and driving thus endangering your families life, instead of saying SHAME on them. Say I"M going to step up, I'm going to help, I'll do my part, I'm going to donate my time, money, etc,to mental health, or at least, learn something about it. Learn the warning signs. There is ALL kinds of info on the internet or get a book at the library. If you don't do your small part, then YOU are to blame when such tragedies happen. Do your part for a better world for all of us. Mental health effects all of us. Don't point fingers, the finger should be pointed at YOU. Do your part!! We are all on this big blue marble together and NONE of us are getting off alive. Let's improve lives while we are here. CARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My Time | Jul 22, 2008 11:10 pm | Request Removal
DEAR SAM, I, ALONG WITH MY FAMILY AM SO SORRY FOR YOU.
WE LOVED TAUNYA AND SPENCER AS WE KNEW THEM, NOT FOR WHAT SOME PEOPLE SEEM TO THINK THEY NEED TO SAY ABOUT HER NOW THAT SHE IS GONE. THOSE FEW PEOPLE OUT THERE THAT ARE SAYING SUCH THINGS, SHOULD FEEL ALOT OF QUILT CAUSE THEY SEEM TO OF KNOWN TAUNYA BETTER THEN THE REST OF US. TO THOSE PEOPLE OUT THERE, LEAVE IT ALONE!!!! LET THE REST OF US REMEMBER THEM AS WE KNEW THEM AND STOP MAKING A FOOLS OF YOUR SELVES, CAUSE YOU ARE NOW LOOKING LIKE THE BAD PERSON HERE!!!!
I LOVED TAUNYA AND SO DID MY FAMILY ALONG WITH SPENCER. I HAVE ONLY GOOD MEMORIES OF THEM BOTH AND WOULD LIKE TO KEEP IT THAT WAY!!!! THERE WAS A REASON TAUNYA CHOSE TO TAKE SPENCER, I'M SURE SHE FELT SHE WAS PERTECTING HIM FROM SOMETHING OR SOMEONE. "IN HER MIND", I'M SURE SHE THOUGHT SHE WAS DOING THE RIGHT THING. YOU CAN'T CHANGE WHAT HAS BEEN DONE. SO BACK OFF AND LET PEOPLE WITH A HEART AND THAT ARE MORNING FOR BOTH OF THEM DO SO AND QUIT WITH THE B.S.. NO ONE WANTS TO HEAR IT OR YOU!!!!! AND YOU SAY YOU ARE FAMILY!!!!!
TAKE CARE SAM AND KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.
RENEE COPE | Jul 22, 2008 10:33 pm | Request Removal
mark hepko, thank you for the letter and photo of spencer on my buckin barrel, please call me im in the wenatchee phone book, tom
wallman 27 | Jul 22, 2008 9:29 pm | Request Removal
she is your cousin and my sister we have had many memorable times together. im not understanding why you are coming on this comment thread hammering her when you know nothing about her but what youve heard over the past 5 years. obviously you dont understand like all that dont have problembs like this. my phone number is in the wenatchee phone book, call me. to hear you dis her this, breaks my heart. you being family should try to look forward and try to be there for your own if they have problems. we go back along ways dont let this be our last conversation
wallman 27 | Jul 22, 2008 9:27 pm | Request Removal
To the family of Spencer & Taunya: Aside from the few folks that are never tougher or more bold than they are from behind their keyboard, please know that majority of the "public" is genuinely concerned for you as work through your grief. Lean on each other and trust that you had done all that you could. Somethings in life can never be explained to the satisfaction of all, and I suspect this unspeakable tragedy falls squarely in that category. You are in our hearts and our prayers and may you each find the strength to move forward with conviction and peace of mind.

R. McGowan
R. McGowan | Jul 22, 2008 9:18 pm | Request Removal
IF she had the witts about her to contact the person giving her the medication, why did she not have the witts to call the police OR stop taking the damn stuff. Obviously someone knew she was searching for help... why didn't they step in and make a phone call or two. The emergency room at any hospital would have been a great place to go if you're taking something that's making you think crazy things... Shame on me for what, Tom? Speaking the truth? If she hadn't killed herself she would be in jail for murder... nobody seems to think that way because she did kill herself; what if she hadn't succeeded? We'd all be pissed at her for killing her son... I know I am!!! She murdered her child; I'm sorry she was in such a mental state to be able to do such a horrible thing but she knows we are all here for Spencer (if not her) and she chose to commit this murder regardless. I feel sorry for her in the sense that she thought there was no way to continue in this world; and I would have been sad for her had she not committed murder... but she did; and I'll never let that go. As for her not attempting suicide in 2005; she did... she called her daddy (My uncle) and he is the one who called the police for her and saved her life... only to have her take another one with her when she was finally successful! I'm sorry that you don't agree with what I am saying here... but it is truth and nothing but...
Jamie Hoyson | Jul 22, 2008 8:58 pm | Request Removal
jamie hoyson shame on you. tom
wallman 27 | Jul 22, 2008 8:35 pm | Request Removal
Some of you people sicken me. Before you post comments on here read the article and let it sink in. Her situations were PRIOR to 2005. You people like to cast stones like you are saints. I doubt that you are! People do things at some points in their lives that they are not proud of and correct them by taking a different path, That is what Taunya did. You people who post these things need to grow up, Do you have to dig and pry into others business. Leave this to the FAMILY. Ask yourselfs would you like it if people were on here talking like this about your family or friends? The family has been through enough so please STOP.

I met Taunya in 2005, i was a coworker of hers. Taunya was a wonderful friend, She became like a sister to me, and like a aunt to my children.

Scott Burchett
Scott Burchett | Jul 22, 2008 7:47 pm | Request Removal
obviously jason you didnt read my post and have no concept of depression and a chemical imbalance ... SHE TRIED TO GET IT STRAIT ... THEY DIDNT ANSWER THE PHONE.....
wallman 27 | Jul 22, 2008 7:45 pm | Request Removal
Why do people say that she is a great mother. There is not one possible exclamation that makes it OK to take the life of your child.
Jason Alexander | Jul 22, 2008 7:34 pm | Request Removal
I have known Taunya all of my life; she was my cousin. Throughout her life she has hurt people in ways that people would never think possible... and then she would have a way of getting you close again, only to hurt you again. I was the victim of this in so many ways while we grew up... and I finally learned not to fall for it again. Please don't think that our family has not been there for her at EVERY cost! There was obviously NOTHING that could have been done to stop her from doing what she did to this poor child. The state was the only chance he had of surviving and having a relationship with his father BEFORE he was on his death bed... and they did nothing. I'm sure she put her best foot forward where they were concerned and they too fell for it. She had her way of charming herself into any situation... this would be her last. Thank you to all who have tried to help Spencer... this will never make sense to us, even those who knew her all of our lives. We just have to do what we can to help change this course for other children in similar situations. He shall rest in peace and we shall live on never quite knowing what made her do such a horrible thing. When she set her mind to something she was great at it; before her life went to drugs she was an excellent mom! That was a LONG time ago. To Mark, I am very sorry that you were not able to spend at least one more day with this wonderful son of yours! He is now your Guardian Angel!!!
Jamie Hoyson | Jul 22, 2008 6:53 pm | Request Removal
hey I was in spencers corner. in 2005 she did not try to kill herself like the paper says. she got the tar beat out of her by her boyfriend...... the cops and state put spencer with ME temporarily, until she got out of the house. they lived with ME, i picked him up and took him to daycare. I cooked that boy hamburgers on the grill. I played baseball with him in MY yard. UNDER MY supervision...she got the help she needed and the state let her go on her way. this is when sam came along and swept her off her feet. the interviews also dont give her the credit she deserves. they changed her medication the week before the shooting, and it BACKFIRED. SHE tried to get ahold of the person in control of that ALL weekend, and they were not available... so boom boom boom . she flipped out. they otta seek people more closer to her when they decide to write stories like this. her brother...Tom Ripley
wallman 27 | Jul 22, 2008 6:51 pm | Request Removal
WHY Why wasn't someone there to be in Spencers corner???he needed someone!!HIs mother had other things she could have done and NOT kill her little boy. I guess i will never understand this !!!
Mom of Sons | Jul 22, 2008 6:02 pm | Request Removal
This is a terrible tragedy where a young woman and her son have been lost. No name calling or pointing fingers will ever bring them back. I believe the biological father, Mark Hepko will live with grief forever. The guy seems to be turning his life around and deeply regrets not getting more involved in his son's life. Give him and the rest of this poor family a break and just let them grieve privately.

kd
A Western Washington Transplant | Jul 22, 2008 5:20 pm | Request Removal
I have known Taunya and Spencer for quit awhile, Spencer adopted us when he was only 1yr old, they even stayed with us for awhile and since weve known her she has never used drugs she did drink but she quit..and as far as taking care of that beautiful boy of hers she did a wonderful job she never hit him or yelled at him he was her world and she his and I dont know where everyone gets off bashing her like you are there were reasons why and someday maybe you will find out and maybe not,,,,but there were things in her life going on with people that I wont name.. so please just let them rest in peace, I know some will bash me back but I dont care the two wonderful people that we considered our family are no longer with us and we are grieving...
Sherilei Eaton | Jul 22, 2008 5:00 pm | Request Removal
I have also put their mission statement on
Http://thespencerfoundation.blogspot.com
Mark Hepko | Jul 22, 2008 4:44 pm | Request Removal
Okay, okay I will take responsibility. I should have known more, done more, but tragically it is an option for a parent, even if involved with CPS, to hide a child from another parent. There shouldn't have been drugs, abuse, or alcohol involved. These are obvious mistakes made. Here is my point, DSHS decided to get involved in the family, and left us no options other than divorce. Now they will not come out and say that but for real, I kid you not, they do not support the family staying together if there is a case of abuse. Because they operate under the guise of protection and safety for the children and they have requirements that need to be proven by parents that they can parent then it seems practical that they would contact me if something happens with my son, they did with the shooting. I just don't think they should have settled for anything less than a relationship with both parents for Spencer. There was nothing in place to stop that, and that would have provided the best for the child.
I was put in prison in June 2002. I asked Taunya for visitation with my son and was met with an antiharrassment order. From that point I had no idea where she was, and all my efforts to find out failed. Believe me when I tell you I tried. So now I have been out of prison for 2-1/2 years and just learned of her being in East Wenatchee, I chose not to be responsible for causing problems with her current life because she already had shown she had the upper hand and all it would take is one phone call and one lie and I would have been answering to authorities again. So in my patience my son was killed. I know it is easy to find fault and point fingers and I do find fault in my actions and know of the three fingers pointing back at me. CPS and DSHS aren't to blame for Taunya murdering our son, but they are responsible for not seeing the case to its best outcome. They short cut hard work and I understand every case is hard work but that's the job. The best for the kids. Read their mission statement on the DSHS website.
Mark Hepko | Jul 22, 2008 4:37 pm | Request Removal
Maybe DSHS and CPS are not the ones to blame when we have broken families due to drug, alcohol and physical abuse. How about some personal responsibility as a parent?
Not Matt | Jul 22, 2008 3:52 pm | Request Removal
did hepko just get out of prison? Did this freak taunya out?
l b | Jul 22, 2008 3:10 pm | Request Removal
When you don't know the family or details of the situation you need to keep your mouth shut because you have no idea what you're talking about, Mr. Reality.
Anonymous Anonymous | Jul 22, 2008 2:50 pm | Request Removal
It's very unfortunate what has happened to your son, and the state may have been able to do more, but as a parent YOU should have known what is happening in your sons life and have had regular contact. When it's been since 2002 that you have had contact somthing is seriously wrong on your end also. Hopefully this will be a wakeup call to all the other parents out there who have children they don't know or talk to.
Mr Reality | Jul 22, 2008 2:39 pm | Request Removal
CPS may not automatically remove a child from the house of an attempted suicide by a parent but one would think that they might decide to contact the other parent of the child. Especially if he had his parental rights to the child. Especially if he had gone to treatment, been subjected to UA's and jumped through all of CPS's requirements. One would think he deserved a call from a case manager to let him know. That is my concern, and that will be what I try to change. Not one phone call, no certified letter. I was contacted within hours when my son was shot by his mother, by guess who...DSHS. Thanks but you're too late.
Spencer's Dad
Mark Hepko | Jul 22, 2008 12:27 pm | Request Removal
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