Dear Abby: I’m considering marrying a man who is divorced. We get along great, and I love and trust him.
Is it ever appropriate to call the ex and discuss her side of the story? Or should I ask my boyfriend what she’d say if I were to contact her?
— Covering My Bases in California
Dear Covering Your Bases: If you call the ex, you can count on hearing something negative about your boyfriend or they wouldn’t be…